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Saturday, September 30, 2017

I'm back! Live Blogging General Conference: October 2017

After a hiatus last April, I once again have a way to watch conference and still have access to my laptop, thanks to my new roommates. I did miss the Women's Session, due to traveling, and have yet to have time to go back and listen to those talks. But by all accounts it was a wonderful session.

As always, you may watch all sessions of General Conference live (or time-delayed) online at lds.org, the Mormon Channel on YouTube, and on byutv.

This blog records what I hear and think as I listen; it is not intended to be a summary and my views are my own. I highly recommend that you watch or read conference for yourself. Talks can be watched and read at conference.lds.org, and you can also read summaries here.

Image credit: Merrill Humberg, "Idaho Falls Temple." Taken 25 Nov. 2006. Wikimedia Commons. CC-BY-2.5. (My younger brother and I used to take a blanket and a radio down to the Idaho Falls temple grounds to listen to a session of General Conference. This picture reminded me of those afternoons.)

Saturday Morning Session

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

President Uchtdorf reminds us that joy and purposefulness comes when we focus on our relationships with God and with other people, seek fellowship with the saints, remember that our skills and talents are needed and valued, and seek ways to serve and build up each other and the Kingdom of God. "How beautiful it is to know, though we are imperfect...God will be generous with us, and use us for his purposes" (not sure I got this quote exactly right; I'll edit later if needed). We must take responsibility for determining the correct path for our lives and steering toward it; "life is not a self-driving car." 

Bonnie L. Oscarson

We are often moved to serve and donate time, money, and material resources when we see disasters around the world--and this service is necessary and good. But we often forget to look for ways to serve closer to home on an everyday basis--in our homes, wards, and neighborhoods. I wish more people understood this principle. I wish I were better at enacting it in my own life. I struggle to know how I can serve others beyond my official work, church, and family responsibilities, without overwhelming myself. 

Dallin H. Oaks.

Those who know and understand God's plan of salvation are obligated to follow it, and their efforts to do so will sometimes lead to conflict with family, friends, and associates who do not know the plan of salvation. This kind of conflict happens in all ages of history, in all cultures. Elder Oaks focuses specifically on the LDS doctrine of the family. He notes the increasing cultural acceptance of cohabitation without marriage and same-sex marriage, both of which are contrary to LDS teachings about the family. His talk focuses heavily on the 1995 Family Proclamation, of which he is a signatory. He gave some insight into the composition and publication of that document. He calls this proclamation a "statement of eternal truths, the will of the Lord." And he suggests that our willingness to live by the precepts of that document is a test of faithfulness to the Lord in this generation.

This talk will be hard for a lot of people to hear; it's going to stir a lot of people up. Maybe that's a good thing.

John C. Pingree Jr.

Everyone is given gifts that bless our lives and provide opportunities to serve others. We have a responsibility to discover and develop our gifts, and to seek after gifts. Each of us has a personal ministry, regardless of age, gender, income level, education, physical ability, etc. God sometimes uses our trials to give us opportunities to develop gifts and lead us toward our personal ministry. And God will strengthen us so that we can fulfill our most important ministry. Personal worthiness gives us strength to fulfill our ministries, but distractions weaken our power to serve. Avoid the temptation of personal praise for our ministries, but follow the Savior's example and glorify God.

This is the third message so far this morning to focus on the usefulness of individuals, and our need to be of use, and the world's need for our service.

D. Todd Christofferson

I appreciate Elder Christofferson's reminder that we are all broken and torn in different ways. All of us suffer; all need healing. The symbol of eating Christ's flesh and drinking His blood through the sacrament is not only a remembrance of his atonement; it also represents the need to "internalize the qualities and characteristics of Christ." Jesus is the living bread and water. "We cannot be content to remain where we are." God doesn't only command us to be holy; he also provides the way for us to become holy, which is impossible to do by our own power. Jesus came to the world to minister. We come to this world not only to be ministered to, but to minister. The inscription "holiness to the Lord" is found not only on our temple doors, but in the pioneer era of Utah was inscribed on such everyday objects as a hammer and drum, as well as on sacrament plates and cups, banners, and the original ZCMI entrance. This is a reminder to me that whatever work we do, we ought to perform it as a vocation--a calling--an opportunity to minister to others and glorify God.

Jeffrey R. Holland

It seemed for a minute that Elder Holland was going to speak on sexual morality, but then he took a turn and is focusing on repentance and the atonement, without which the commandment to be perfect would lead inevitably to despair, but with it, we can have a perfect brightness of hope. "I need mercy, and the world needs peace." Sometimes scriptures and commandments can be discouraging, because we recognize how much we fall short of righteousness. But Elder Holland suggests that such scriptures and commandments can instead be a reminder of the perfection and power of God, and of the truth that our salvation is a supernal gift. Yet if we are unable to achieve total perfection, it's not unreasonable for God to ask us to strive to be a little more perfect, for steady improvement in doing good to others, and overcoming temptation in ourselves--and in so doing, not succumb to depression or demolished self esteem. Do not glory in our own righteousness, or point the finger of accusation or scorn at those who are struggling. We are all debtors. We are all fallen. We all need grace. And through Christ, we can be finished, complete, and whole.

Can Elder Holland just be the concluding speaker for every session?

Saturday Afternoon Session

That youth choir is looking and sounding good. I really dig their arrangement of #LoveOneAnother. 

Gary E. Stevenson

Nice shout-out to this summer's total eclipse! I enjoyed watching it with my family up here in Idaho. It was a really profound, almost spiritual experience. I like the idea of viewing "spiritual eclipses," or challenges, through the lens of the gospel. I also appreciate that instead of bashing social media, he's talking about putting it to good use, and not merely allowing it to use us. How do I use the resources at my disposal to meaningfully connect with others and add light to their lives?

Steven W. Owen

Repentance is always positive. Repentance is not merely self-improvement efforts or "miserable behavior modification" (it occurs to me that "miserable" might modify either "behavior" or "modification," or both, in that phrase). It's the process of accessing grace through the atonement of Christ. Repentance inspires a commitment to obedience to commandments and covenants because of love. It is meant to be a joyful experience. Sometimes fear of rejection--rejection by God and/or other loved ones--might cause us to hesitate from repentance. But where true love is present, as it is with our Eternal Father, we have nothing to fear. God will always welcome his repentant children with open arms. Repentance is for everyone--people beginning to believe, already believe, trying to believe again.

Quentin L. Cook

Elder Cook throws down a truth bomb about racism, sexism, classism, etc., reiterating this statement from August 2017 over the pulpit, thus putting the kibosh on fringe-right Mormons in the blogsphere who have claimed that the LDS Newsroom's statement was contrary to church doctrine. This comes from the Brethren. All are alike unto God, and those who claim inherent superiority do so in opposition to the doctrine of Christ. Elder Cook then turns to talk about the importance of humility and love in furthering missionary efforts. He also identified "modesty and understatement" as civic virtues, clearly using modesty in its correct meaning rather than using it in its current almost-exclusive sense of "conservative dress." Yay! "Authenticity" is not an excuse for un-Christlike behavior. He cautioned against "humble bragging," self-aggrandizement, and grudge-holding. Gratitude both cultivates and is a sign of humility.

Ronald A. Rasband

Elder Rasband says that God doesn't do things by coincidence, but by divine design. But I believe in coincidences too--how do I know what's God acting in my life and what's just a coincidence? If I'm drawing closer to God, does it matter? Should I just attribute stuff that draws me toward heaven to God, and label everything else coincidence? What about coincidences that only seem to draw one closer to God, but are really just a counterfeit--like when people see images of saints in their toast, because human pattern-recognition is a bit buggy? What about when bad stuff happens? Is that always/often/ever by God's design? I believe God can and does use our circumstances to help us grow and draw closer to Him, and that he places people and opportunities in our path, if we are seeking his will and his help. And I believe that sometimes, what we perceive as an obstruction in the path we've chosen for ourselves is God's way of setting us on a better path. But I'm not sure I believe in a God who orchestrates my every circumstance. I do believe that I should seek to design my life in a way that is pleasing to God. I also believe that because everyone's circumstances are unique to some degree, it is pleasing to God that our lives don't all follow exactly the same design (though there are some key elements that we all have in common, like embracing the gospel, being baptized, making temple covenants, etc.). Elder Rasband says that agency is the freedom to choose to follow or not follow the Lord and His servants. I think it is that, but also more than that. And yes, each of us has divinity within us.

O. Vincent Haleck

Hearing stories of saints who sacrificed so much because of their belief in the truthfulness of the gospel prompts me to ask, "what am I willing to sacrifice for the sake of the truth?" In my life, I have rarely been called upon to sacrifice much. But I have had moments where my commitment to the truth has been challenged. Not just gospel truth (though certainly that as well), but all kinds of truth. "Have the will to do and to give. I promise that the Lord will not leave you wanting."

Russell M. Nelson

"Conversion is an individual matter." How important is the Book of Mormon to your testimony? Without the BOM, what would you be like? What would you not know, and what would you not have? "The full power of the gospel of Jesus Christ is contained in the Book of Mormon." It corrects erroneous doctrines. Studying the Book of Mormon daily will allow you to receive spiritual power to help you in your daily life. Daily study of the scriptures can give you spiritual direction, help you make decisions, and help you overcome temptation. What good is it to say "I know the Book of Mormon is true" if you are not studying it?

This talk reminds me a little of President Benson's emphasis on reading the BoM during his tenure as president of the church in my childhood.

Sunday Morning Session

On Pajama Church Sunday, I eat waffles for breakfast! 
This is why my notes for the first couple of talks are short.

Jean B. Bingham


Lean on the Savior. The atonement not only redeems us from our own sins; it heals us from the hurt done as a consequence of the sins of others. The atonement brings healing, peace, and comfort. Coming to know Jesus Christ helps us understand our own relationship to God and purpose on Earth; it increases our capacity and desire to do good in the world.

Donald L. Hallstrom

Have miracles ceased? Definition of miracle: "A beneficial event brought about through divine power that mortals do not understand." Do we have the faith not to be healed from our physical afflictions, so that we might be healed spiritually for eternity? This is a hard one for me, because I want both. I'm mostly resigned to not being healed from some of my physical afflictions in this life, but I struggle with it sometimes.

David A. Bednar

Avoiding distractions seems to be another recurring theme this conference. "Sometimes we run so fast...we may forget what we are running toward and why we are running." The Sabbath is God's appointed time; a sacred time set aside to rest from worldly labors and contemplate the things of God. A day of rest allows us to reorient ourselves and remember our eternal purpose and destiny. Temples also provide a sacred space and time removed from worldly concerns, where we focus our attention upon, and learn about God the Father, his son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. Hopefully, homes become another space where we take time to slow down and rest from the cares of the world, and build each other up spiritually. It's interesting how often hymns get quoted in conference talks. This time it's "Let the Holy Spirit Guide."

W. Christopher Waddell

How do we face challenges? Faith and righteousness does not guarantee we will have a life free of pain and hardship. But it can help us meet pain and hardship with added spiritual strength, and with greater hope for a bright, eternal future. Sometimes, God lifts our burdens, and sometimes, he gives us strength to bear them. Priesthood blessings of healing may restore health, or they may give us wisdom and perspective to know how best to seek medical care and other resources that will enable us endure our physical infirmities--this latter sort of help from priesthood blessings has mostly been my experience, though I've experienced some of the former as well. Sadly, often people in the grip of suffering turn away from their one best source of help--the Savior. Professional medical assistance and spiritual support and sustenance are both necessary.

W. Craig Zwick

A reference to The Lion King in conference? Heck yeah! Rafiki is awesome. And a reminder to look beyond what we see with mortal eyes, and avoid "easy assumptions and stereotypes." We must widen our lens. We rarely have the whole picture. Ask questions and get to know people! Hasty attempts to give counsel sometimes go awry--we must work hard to understand one another's circumstances to know best how to give good support and counsel. All of us come from different backgrounds; all of us experience the limitations of our cultural assumptions and traditions. Stop being a giant demolition ball. Truth should be our highest allegiance, though it should never be a barrier to kindness. *fist pump!!!* Resist comparisons, labeling, criticism so prevalent in the world. When they are directed toward us, they wound and may distort our perception of ourselves and others. When that happens, we must "let it go"--delete them and move on. Pray to have the scales removed from our eyes, and to see with the eyes of understanding.

Henry B. Eyring

Uchtdorf and Eyring hugged as they passed each other on their way to and from the pulpit. I love it! I love the example of our male leaders unselfconsciously expressing brotherly love--an example our culture sorely lacks.

Reading scriptures brings us greater faith, more ability to resist temptation, as well as peace and optimism for the future. In the midst of increasing tumult and doubt in the world, increasing the strength of our testimonies brings peace. "We have felt an increased desire to go to the rescue of others in need." I wasn't in Idaho when the Teton Dam broke--I wasn't even born. But as a resident of Southeast Idaho for most of my adult life, I'm very familiar with the story, and the indelible impact it had on the community. That spirit of looking out for and serving others remains, and is passed on to new members of the community. Perhaps it's one of the things that drew me back to Rexburg. I am certain that such an experience bringing out such a change is not unique to Rexburg, but it is the one that touches me most directly. President Eyring has visited cities affected by recent hurricanes--I had not considered before how close those flood victims must be to his own heart, as a fellow survivor of severe flooding. I feel a sense of personal pride for how willingly, even eagerly Mormons typically respond to such disasters. Yet I also remember Sister Oscarson's talk from yesterday. As essential as service in response to disasters is, it is sometimes harder to sustain consistent, smaller acts of service in our own neighborhoods. Both are necessary if we are to become a Zion people. Such selfless service is the fruit of faith in Jesus Christ, and it has power to change lives--both the lives of those who serve and the lives of those who are served. But "if we stop trying after one burst of effort, the change will fade." Continue to exercise faith in Jesus Christ and to do good. Doubt not, fear not--angels will bear you up. "The best days are ahead for the kingdom of God on the Earth." We will face opposition--we always have. But faith will overcome fear and opposition. God will be with us.

Sunday Afternoon Session

Elder Robert D. Hales passed away this afternoon. He'll be missed.

M. Russell Ballard

Jane Manning James!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love hearing stories of POC pioneers in the church--too few know of them. Elder Ballard says that if we lose our ties to our pioneer forefathers and foremothers, we will lose a very special treasure. I also appreciate his emphasis on the importance of women's stories and women's testimonies. Jane Manning James is a wonderful example of faith despite trials and mistreatment by some within the church. She did not allow the frailties of men to divert her attention from her faith in the restored gospel. She trusted in God. 




Elder Ballard warns against those who preach false doctrines and those who would exploit members through get rich quick schemes, and those who promise special healing methods for money that are ethically or legally questionable (this brings MLMs to my mind, though he didn't mention them specifically). He urges members to seek medical help from those who are legally and medically qualified. 

Independence and self-reliance was essential for our pioneer ancestors; but their sense of community was no less important!

He denounced racism, sexism, and nationalism, and called on us to reach out to everyone and show love. This is the second such explicit condemnation of these evils during this conference.

Tad R. Callister

The Book of Mormon really is a remarkably complex book to have been the invention of a relatively unlearned man of 23, in the space of approximately two months, and only one draft with relatively minor grammatical changes. Theories about how he might have done it contradict eyewitness accounts. A number of incidental details once thought contrary to the archaeological and historical record, such as cement and records engraved on metal plates, have turned out to be accurate (though I note that many more such puzzling details remain; archaeological evidence alone is unlikely to ever confirm the Book of Mormon's authenticity). For me, the surest witness of the Book of Mormon lies in its witness of Jesus Christ, and the sweetness that studying its messages brings to my life.

Joni L. Koch

Avoid putting permanent labels on people. Allow people, includingf church leaders and members, the right to grow and change for the better. Support them in their efforts to do so, and do not reject them because of past or current errors. Sometimes correction is needed, but must be done in love and a spirit of unity.

Stanley G. Ellis

God's trust for fallible mortals is truly extraordinary. Do we trust God? Do we show our trust through faithfulness to His commandments? Do we maintain trust in God even when life is hard and needed blessings seem to be withheld? Hard is good; it's part of the gospel plan. Hard strengthens us. Adversity is inevitable, but our response to it varies. How we react to hardship determines how we will be changed by it, for better or worse. Do we flee or fight? Either choice may be dangerous; either choice may be right. We must be guided by faith and courage, not by a spirit of fear. What is hard will vary from person to person, but all of us will experience challenges. We ought not to judge others' hardships or compare ours to theirs. Regardless of circumstance, hard can be good for those who will move forward with faith, and trust in the Lord. Do not act or react in a spirit of fear.

Adilson de Paula Parrella

I am thankful for the precious truth that families can be eternal. I'm also sympathetic to those whose earthly families are dysfunctional to a degree that this gospel principle holds no appeal. Repentance and redemption is the central tenet of the gospel; all those who become part of eternal families will first have to develop Christlike relationships. And those relationships do change lives. Elder Parrella goes on to discuss other essential truths of the restored gospel and the Book of Mormon, such as the character of the Godhead. I am thankful to worship a God whom I can know, understand, and speak to. Our God encourages and entices us to follow His example and commandments without coercion. He gives us the gift of atonement and resurrection, so that I can be with Him and with my family eternally.

Ian S. Ardern

"Some people are like catterpillars...they gnaw at and and try to destroy our faith." And now he's quoting Elder Hales and his voice cracks with emotion. Unless you are fully engaged in living the gospel...you cannot generate enough spiritual light to push back darkness. I love how much these brethren love each other. Repent daily. Questions & doubts will arise; care must be taken about where we turn for answers. The "thin pages [of scripture are] thick with spiritual truths." I think that there are many good, reputable sources of answers to gospel questions in addition to the scriptures and the resources at lds.org. But there are a great many more very poor sources, and unfortunately a lot of people do not have the information literacy or historiographic training to assess available sources. We must do better at providing such training so that people can study out the questions they have. And through all, we ought not to allow doubts and confusion to drown out the witness of the spirit that we have received. Truth can withstand scrutiny, but I think it's much harder to withstand cynicism.

Jose L. Alonso

 Build one another up; express love and concern for one another in word and deed. Sending text messages and emails of encouragement and affection is good, but sometimes we need to put down our devices and express out love with our helping hands. "Love without service is like faith without works; it's dead indeed." Elder Alonso shared a tender story of losing his young son, who was hit by a car while waiting at a bus stop. His family met, forgave, and was able to love the young man who was driving the car, and they maintained a friendship with him. Forgiving is as sweet as being forgiven.

Neil L. Anderson

LOL Elder Anderson confirming that our conference marathon is almost at its conclusion--this is the final session, and he is the final speaker. The light of the gospel is moving across the world as the surely as the dawn. God has given authority to leaders of the church, and we trust in the voice of the Lord, whether it comes by direct revelation or through the voice of His servants. I'm loving this insight into the writing process of conference talks, which may include years of preparation and dozens of drafts--25 years, in one case! I am absolutely going to bring it up with my writing students tomorrow. It is a weighty matter to prepare for such a responsibility, and often we wonder whether we are prepared enough. "You don't know everything, but you know enough." Pres. Monson has said to take time to read and ponder conference messages, and I too bear witness of the power of doing so. I'm glad I have the LDS Gospel Library app so that I can read and listen to talks at opportune moments as I go about my days. And now he's quoting from his own notes from this conference; his insights are often different from mine, and I love hearing what stands out to others from conference (though I note that he repeated the condemnation of sexism, racism, and nationalism--no ambiguity there). This talk is so meta, I love it! Elder Anderson shares a message from the quote Elder Hales had prepared for this conference, "When we choose to have faith we are prepared to stand in the presence of God." And he closes by quoting a blessing from Thomas S. Monson in a previous conference.

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Not Live Blogging General Conference

Image: "Salt Lake Temple in Autumn" by Sascha Wenninger, (CC BY-SA 2.0)
I didn't live blog the Women's Session of conference last weekend, because I was watching it at my sister-in-law's stake center, along with my two other sisters-in-law and all my nieces but the youngest. It was a precious experience.

I fully intended to live blog my way though this conference weekend, as I have for the past few years. But my efforts to do so have been frustrated. I'm in the process of buying a house in Rexburg, and just renting a room meanwhile. Most of my stuff, including my desktop PC, is still in storage. And it turns out I can't use YouTube to cast a live stream from either my phone or my laptop to my TV. Thus, in order to watch conference on my TV, I had to plug my laptop in via an HDMI cable, which means I couldn't use it to type. So I had to choose between watching conference and not blogging, or listening to conference and blogging. After wasting too much of the Saturday morning session and the hours between it and the afternoon session struggling to get my tech to work the way I want it to, I reluctantly decided it's better to watch conference than to live blog it.

Not being able to blog during conference led me to ponder on the value of having done so. Blogging has been my way of note-taking. It's both easier for me than hand-writing notes, and also more communal. I love being able to share my thoughts on conference with the handful of folks who read my blog. Thinking about those people, and not just myself, altered the way I paid attention to conference. I don't know that the alteration was better, though it certainly wasn't worse. I have found it refreshing, though. And I've also really enjoyed the conversations that occasionally arise either in the comments here on my blog, or else on Facebook and elsewhere that I publish the blog.

This weekend I've been having a lot of fibromyalgia-related pain in my hands, possibly due to the rapid and frequent changes in the weather recently. Gripping a pen for long enough to take notes was decidedly unpleasant. So I didn't take any notes during conference sessions, and that made it harder for me to stay awake and attentive. I ended up doing some cleaning yesterday, and practiced tying a new bow-tie this morning (fortunately I made a passable bow by the time my hands hurt too much to continue). I'm doubly grateful for conference talk summaries, as well as the ability to watch and read conference talks at a later time, because I definitely don't remember any of the talks as well as I usually do.

Here, though, are some of the things that do stand out in my memory:

President Uchtdorf's "Fourth Floor, Last Door" talk during the Women's Session last weekend was wonderful. I appreciate his urging of us to press forward in following our spiritual promptings and gospel callings, even to the "fourth floor, last door." I guessed who the young woman was behind that last door, who pleaded with her mother to let the missionaries share their message, before he revealed that it was his beloved wife Harriet Uchtdorf. I did not learn until later that evening that one of the elders who came to her door to share the gospel is my great-uncle, Richard Kowallis.

President Uchtdorf's Saturday morning message also resonated with me. It was a great reminder of the plan of salvation, which is truly a plan of happiness. In that vein, too, was President Nelson's talk on joy and spiritual survival. I was glad that President Nelson taught plainly that we can have joy even in the midst of great hardship and suffering, without once suggesting that those who suffer from depression and anxiety are in any sense lacking in faith or righteousness. Joy is really a gift.

Elder Cook's talk in the Saturday afternoon session was direct, uncompromising, but also uplifting. I appreciated his stern yet loving reminder of the many different kinds of stumbling blocks we may encounter on our spiritual journey. I will certainly return to his message to ponder which stumbling blocks I am most prone to stubbing my toes on.

I confess that by the time Elder Christofferson stood at the podium, I had lost my battle with drowsiness. From the summary, though, I think I must place this one high on my list of talks to listen to soon (and Elder Yamashita's from this session as well). It is vital that we understand the nature of God's love, and I think Elder Christofferson is right that the adjective "unconditional" can be misleading. God's love is infinite, everlasting, and perfect. It is never in short supply, and will always be far more than sufficient for our needs. But we cannot abide in it unless we choose to do so, and in that sense (and only that sense) it is conditionally available to us.

Sister Reeves gave a great discourse on the power of repentance in the Sunday morning session, and I'll have to revisit that one too, because most of my thoughts on it were quickly diverted by Elder Ballard's talk, in which he spoke to those members of the church who are struggling with doubts. Quoting the apostle Peter, Elder Ballard asked, "to whom shall [you] go?" Now, when he said that, I stiffened in alarm--not so much for myself (though I've wrestled with many a troubling bit of doctrine or history) but for my friends whose faith crises or faith transitions have been acute and exacerbated by accusatory rhetoric from members of their own congregations and yes, not infrequently also by conference talks which could have been formulated with greater care. To my delighted surprise, Elder Ballard went on to specifically call out such lack of support from the membership to those whose journey along the path of discipleship has been arrested for one reason or another. It seems to me that he and many of his fellow general authorities have been doing something to listen to those members of the church who are struggling--I mean really listen to them! And to respond to their concerns more positively. In my experience, few of those I know in that situation are there because of unrighteousness or rebelliousness. They do not need admonition but nurture in truth and love--and patience! They need to have patience with human leaders and members, with ambiguous doctrine and troublesome history. And they need to receive patience from those who do not understand why they are troubled by things that so many members don't give a second thought to. Elder Robbins' talk built on a similar principle.

I loved Bishop Davies' and President Eyring's sermons on the joys of worship and Sabbath observance. Basically the whole Sunday morning session was full of Win.

I had to laugh when Elder Bednar made his list first thing in the Sunday afternoon session. I wanted to jump online and ask somebody to check if he's ever given a talk as a GA (or for that matter, when he was president of Ricks/BYU-I) that didn't include a list. I guess in that instance it was a good thing that I didn't have ready access to social media! It was, of course, a great talk on coming to know the Lord.

Then there's Elder Schmutz's talk. I believe this will go down in the annals of conference as one of the great ones, along side most of Elder Holland's sermons. I think it might be my favorite of this conference (though I still need to go back and watch/read the ones I missed due to tech or sleepiness problems). Elder Schmutz taught that while suffering is an unavoidable part of mortality, there is nothing inherently ennobling or sanctifying about it. Rather, suffering becomes ennobling and sanctifying when we consecrate our sorrows to Christ. Then, through the atonement, our suffering becomes transformative, and we can receive comfort and a greater measure of compassion, even in the midst of our afflictions. It really bothers me when people glorify suffering for its own sake. I have seen, in my own life and in the lives of those I know, that suffering can as easily be demeaning and destructive as it can be ennobling and sanctifying. It really is compassion--the pure love of Christ--that makes the difference.

By the time the next General Conference rolls around in April, I should be settled into a new home of my own, with plenty of space for my meager stuff, plus shenanigans. Today a friend on Facebook posted a photo of her and her daughter inside a "Conference fort." I don't have any kids as an excuse to build a Conference fort, but I think I'm just going to do it anyway. Because awesomeness is its own excuse.

Saturday, March 26, 2016

Live Blogging General Conference: April 2016



Image Credit: "Salt Lake Temple Square Flower" by Jeff. Flickr. CC BY-NC-SA 2.0
 
Hello again! As has been my tradition for the past few years, I will be live blogging General Conference, the twice-annual worldwide gathering of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, when Mormons (and friends) around the world gather in our homes and church buildings and in Salt Lake City, to hear the general authorities and officers of the church speak. The first session is held the week before the remaining five sessions, and is a special session for the women of the church, ages eight and up. There is a Priesthood session for the men of the church on Saturday, April 2. You may watch all sessions of General Conference live (or time-delayed) online at lds.org, the Mormon Channel on YouTube, and on byutv.

This blog records what I hear and think as I listen; it is not intended to be a summary and my views are my own. I highly recommend that you watch or read conference for yourself. Talks can be watched and read at conference.lds.org, and you can also read summaries here.

General Women's Session 


My roommate Abby and I are having a little spaz-out during the musical number because the choir is so beautifully diverse, and also some of them have MAGENTA HAIR! And then Abby recognized one of her friends singing in the choir. Isn't it beautiful!

Cheryl A Esplin

Sister Esplin reminds us that service is a portal, or catalyst for empathy and love. Some kinds of service are very small and simple, and others require careful reflection, planning, and sometimes great effort. But whether small or great, acts of service born of compassion are always worthwhile.

Neill F. Marriot
"Love means making space for someone else in your life." One of the things I love about Sister Marriott's talk is how many women leaders of the church she is quoting--and this is, I am certain, a deliberate rhetorical choice, as was quoting a mention of Heavenly Mother. I love how Sister Marriott is talking about how we, in our imperfect ways, use our God-given gifts and inclinations to love and serve others. She is talking about a broad view of what motherhood means, while also celebrating traditional motherhood. "We must anchor ourselves to eternal principles, and testify of them, no matter what the world's response." And the examples she chooses are examples of testimony given in love and kindness, and which are attentive to the differences of experience and capability of those we seek to serve, nurture, and teach.

OK, I'm apparently going to tear up during every single video presentation during this session--all of them are about refugees.

Linda K. Burton
The General Relief Society, Young Women's and Primary presidencies have launched a new refugee relief effort. I'll post a link to this once it's available. She reminds me that as important as it is to love and serve our neighbors in faraway places, it is equally important to serve our neighbors next door.

The talks so far have reminded me, too, that the women who are among the general officers of the church are in many cases leading the way in boldly teaching and serving within the church and throughout the world.

How beautiful is this choir? It's just so beautiful. I love it.

Henry B. Eyring
President Eyring always speaks so tender-heartedly. I love what he has said about the women in his life. I'm a bit troubled by his telling us three feelings we have had tonight because of the messages we have heard. It's true (and unsurprising) that tonight I have felt love, the witness of the Holy Spirit, and a desire to go forth and serve as I've listened to the messages given by my church leaders. But past experience has taught me that not everyone who is listening has felt those things, and it feels uncomfortable to me to hear a man--even a man I love and respect and regard as having the gift of prophecy, as I do President Eyring--telling women what we feel. There's a long history of women being told what we feel, or should feel, and that brings a lot of baggage. So I appreciate the intent of this message, but I feel that the way it was expressed was unfortunate. But when he shifted to a witness of the Lord, and to expressing a hope and prayer for what we will feel and what we will do, my spirit shared that witness.

Saturday Morning Session


Henry B. Eyring
The spirit and practice of gathering is essential to the work of the church. At conference time, we gather virtually and in spirit together, and together seek to draw nearer to the Lord by listening to the messages that church leaders have prepared. Feeling the love of the Savior and the joy that accompanies it helps us endure trials of our faith--but what do we do if or when that feeling fades? President Eyring recounts the parable of the sower. We must not only receive, but continue to nourish the seed of faith that was given to us. I think about my roommate Stephanie's efforts in her garden here in Arizona, compared to the gardens I've seen in northern Utah and Idaho. Stephanie has to work much harder than my northern friends so that her garden will flourish. But even my friends who live in more fertile climates must regularly till, and water, and weed, and battle pests in order to receive a harvest. And in my own life it has seemed that sometimes I had good soil and other times I had hard and rocky soil. The great thing about this parable is that our souls, like the soil, can be cultivated. President Eyring also reminds us that the witness we receive during this conference may not be identical to the message that was given, but will be an affirmation of gospel truths that have been testified, and will show us what we need to do to draw closer to the Lord.

Mary R. Durham
Just as people have different "love languages" or "learning styles," not everyone feels the witness of the Holy Spirit in the same way. But we can see many patterns of revelation in the scriptures, which can help us to recognize how the Spirit might speak to us.

Donald L. Hallstrom
Ancient and modern prophets have borne witness that we are the offspring of deity. What does it mean to be a child of heavenly parents? Understanding our true relationship to God is not only necessary to salvation but, when it becomes the core of our identity, provides strength and stability in our mortal lives--other aspects of our identity may change over the years, but this relationship will never change, nor will the love our Father has for us ever cease. Many forces in the world try to make us forget who we really are--and some have never received a witness of their divine heritage. We have so many choices as to how we shape our own identities, and that's wonderful, as long as we never forget our first identity. I am a child of God!

Gary E. Stevenson
He began with a story of a ski trip and mislaid keys that prevented them from accessing and using their comfortable car. The minute he said "keys" I knew we were going to have a talk about the restoration of the priesthood. It's not a perfect analogy, I think, because a church without priesthood keys can still function well, bless the lives of its members, and do much to move the world toward Zion, whereas a car without keys is just a useless hunk of metal, plastic, glass, and upholstery. But it's indeed true that priesthood keys enable critical gospel work that would not be possible without them--the keys of gathering and sealing, for example. And while not all will hold the keys, all may access the power that comes through their use.

Kevin R. Duncan
Forgiveness brings healing to the one who forgives, not just the one who is forgiven. The principle and practice of forgiveness is an opportunity to exercise empathy, and to cultivate love for imperfect people. We are sometimes the victim and sometimes the offender. Forgiving is not excusing, but as we all fall short, we all need compassion and an opportunity to start over. And we all need to practice tolerance, which is an opportunity for learning! To forgive, we need to understand, and to understand, we need to listen to those whose perspectives and experience differ from our own. The atonement isn't just for those who need to repent, but also for those who need to forgive, and God will help us be able to do both.

Steven E. Snow
Our hymnal is a great blessing to our worship. This is certainly true for me--singing with my ward choir, or with a church congregation, is often when I feel the greatest spirit of communion. The hymns teach pure and simple truths. The 1985 edition of the LDS hymnal included what was then a new hymn, "Be Thou Humble." Humility is so important to the flourishing of all worthy and healthy relationships, and something that we seem to need continual reminders of. It's so easy for pride to seep into our hearts, and pride is fundamentally isolating. No amount of righteous living will exempt us from painful trials, but humility can help us to weather them.

Dale G. Renlund
Because of the spiritual distance between ourselves and God, we may come to feel entitled to grace and blessings, and to resent when things seem hard or unfair. But as we draw closer to God, the further we get from such childish notions, as our hearts are filled with gratitude and humility. While I certainly wish that material goods were distributed more equitably, for the good of my spirit I don't want life to be fair--I want something better. The blessings God provides are out of all proportion to what I could ever deserve. It's true that I also want to be free from grief and trials as much as possible. But I understand that enduring these hardships is an unavoidable part of mortality, and that the practice of enduring faithfully makes me stronger.

And now the choir is closing with my favorite hymn that's not in the hymnal: Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing!

Saturday Afternoon Session


Some of the BYU-Idaho students in that choir could be my students this coming Fall! I'm so happy to be returning home to Idaho and to settle down at last. Being a student at BYU-Idaho is great, but being a professor will be even better.

During the sustaining of general authorities and officers of the church, a lone person voiced opposition. This happened during last conference, though there were more voices that time. It surprised some members for whom an opposing voice had not been heard in their lifetimes, but it's not a new phenomenon. The purpose of the sustaining vote is not to decide who will lead the church (it's not an election). Callings to serve in any office in the church, from the highest to the lowest, come by revelation and are extended by established priesthood authority. But as members, our vote is an opportunity to affirm our commitment to support and assist those whom the Lord has called in the work of building Zion. It does not necessarily mean that we always agree with everything they say or do, or that we think they are infallible, but that we recognize their authority and stewardship within the church. I am glad we have the opportunity to offer a sustaining vote--and, yes, also the opportunity to voice opposition. It is important to me to continue to have a chance to officially affirm where I stand, and not something I do lightly or automatically.

Ronald A. Rasband
2 Nephi 31:20 is my family's unofficial mission statement; my mom had it embroidered on a banner and it hangs just inside my parents' front door. I appreciate Elder Rasband's reminder that we cannot "endure to the end" alone, but that we need to support and sustain one another as we press forward together. Eternal life is not a solitary experience either; the associations we cultivate in this life will continue in the next. As Jesus reaches out to us to lift us up and rescue us from sinking beneath the waves of life, so we must also reach out to and lift up our brothers and sisters. I can imagine myself with one hand firmly grasped in the Savior's hand and another reached out to hold fast to those whom I love.

Neil L. Andersen
Family configurations increasingly do not match the pattern extolled by the church; while we will continue to teach toward the ideal, we must increasingly be sensitive to the knowledge that many in our congregations do not experience it themselves. It seems very difficult to me--but essential--to affirm the doctrine of eternal families in a way that is inclusive of and compassionate toward those whose experience doesn't match it. We can take solace in the knowledge that regardless of our mortal family's circumstances, we are all part of a heavenly family. And we can do everything in our power to help our spiritual brothers and sisters feel that they are a part of that family, and a part of ours.

Mervyn B. Arnold
I was touched by Elder Arnold's tenderness as he spoke of going to the rescue of those who are physically or spiritually suffering or in danger.

Jairo Mazzagardi
Many converts have powerful stories of seeking for truth and light that led them eventually to the restored gospel. Indeed, Joseph Smith's account of the first vision is a moving account of the power of spiritual searching. While being born and raised in the church is a precious blessing, I think those of us who were sometimes feel a kind of holy envy, or a longing to have such a powerful conversion experience ourselves. But of course we must all be converted to the gospel, and such conversion must involve earnest searching. Perhaps because I understand the necessity of diligent searching to the conversion process, I do not regard uncertainty or doubt as dangerous to faith but as essential to it. But the purpose of searching is to find, and God promises that those who seek him will find him.

David A. Bednar
Elder Bednar talks about revelation and rebirth almost continually. And he has a very recognizable rhetorical method, which is precise and logical--for instance in this case he constructs an argument (a claim with reasons, or a series of connected propositions leading to a conclusion) about the relationship between key ordinances and the powers of heaven. I appreciate that while the general authorities are unified in purpose and message, their individual methods allow them to speak to a diverse church body, so that listeners have an opportunity to receive teaching in a language they can understand. And his propositions tend to have two parts: the first takes one principle which is well understood and the second part expands it, illuminating a less-well-understood aspect or providing a new insight. For instance, there was his seminal talk on the cleansing and enabling power of the atonement, or part of today's message about the blessing and sanctifying of the emblems of the sacrament.

M. Russell Ballard
Elder Ballard has given many memorable talks, and written an important book about the importance of counseling within our councils within the church. Today he's talking about family councils. As important as the tradition of "family home evenings" is, so are family councils, and they serve different functions. FHE is about sharing a gospel message and enjoying activities together; councils are for planning, solving problems, building and strengthening relationships, and praying with and for one another. Family councils can be formal or informal, and be planned or happen spontaneously. But some family councils should be planned and prepared for on a regular basis. All members of the family should have opportunities to participate in and contribute to family councils, though at times a family council might occur between the whole family, just the parents, the parents and one child, or one parent and one child. Single members might participate in "roommate councils." Counseling with my family has been essential to meeting the challenges of our lives individually and as a family.

The Priesthood Session was broadcast Saturday at 6pm MDT, 5pm Arizona time. However, I am not asked to attend that session and did not watch it live so that I could get some grading and writing done before Sunday.

Sunday Morning Session


Thomas S. Monson
4 new temples: Ecuador, Zimbabwe, Brazil, Peru! 

The gift of free agency is precious, and should be used for righteous purposes. I appreciated that the choir sang "I Will Follow God's Plan for Me" prior to this talk, because the two messages complement each other. The plan of salvation involves crucial decisions that are essential for everyone, and those who have made sacred covenants share eternal goals--yet though the plan of salvation is universal, God's plan for me is individual. Choosing what is right, and right for me, is not always easy to know or to do. But the "easy wrong" is harder in the end.

Bonnie L. Oscarson
Knowing and believing are different things--we may know but not believe. And I think we can believe but not know. If we know and believe, then do we act according to that belief? We claim and believe that families can be sealed for eternity in the temple--do we engage in family history and attend the temple to perform ordinances for our ancestors? We claim and believe that the Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ, and that together with the Bible they contain the fulness of the gospel, but do we diligently study the scriptures? We claim and believe that God stands at the head of this church and leads it. But do we attend our meetings and magnify our callings? Conversion, a change of heart, happens over time as we exercise our faith consistently. The spiritual perils of our day are the same as they have always been--pride, the cares of the world, the fear of men, which are represented in Lehi's vision of the Tree of Life as "the great and spacious building." After we have partaken of the fruit of the gospel, all is not done. We must daily choose faith over doubt.

W. Christopher Waddell
"Sometime's it's just hard for me to think about Jesus!" Sorrow touches everyone from time to time along our mortal journey. Three steps to peace: learn, listen, and walk. A proper understanding of the gospel and its ordinances does not eliminate sorrow, but gives us hope that can overcome that sorrow. While living the gospel brings peace and comfort to our lives, not every wound will be healed in mortality. Bishop Waddell, like Sister Oscarson, speaks about the vision of the Tree of Life, and warns of the dangers of heeding the calls from the great and spacious building. The proper response to the mocking and scorn of those in the great and spacious building is not to debate, but to ignore.

D. Todd Christofferson
We believe in fathers--in the ideal of the man who puts his family first! We teach it and strive to practice it. Fathers and mothers lead the family as equal partners. Men of the church know that the ideal of manhood is to be found not in worldly models of aggression, individualism, and autonomy, but in our Heavenly Father, who loves, provides for, and teaches His children by word and example. Elder Christofferson continues to describe examples of worthy men who not only serve their families but strive to serve their communities. Providing correction and discipline is part of parenthood, but must be exercised in soberness, love, and a desire to help a loved one to self-mastery; anything approaching abuse is wicked. "Loving the mother of his children—and showing that love—are two of the best things a father can do for his children.” There is no shame for those who, despite their best efforts, are unable to provide for their families by their own means. Seeking help from family, from the church, and from the community when circumstances warrant is an act of love and humility. Individual adaptations to the divine pattern for families are necessary. Even God the Father entrusted His own son to a foster father! I love that reminder that even the Holy Family did not actually match the "ideal nuclear family" model! Develop strong relationships, and continue to progress from good, to better, to best.

Quentin L. Cook
There are now 150 operating temples; when all announced temples are completed, there will be 177. This is cause for humble rejoicing. On this day in 1836, the first temple of this dispensation was dedicated in Kirtland, Ohio, and the Lord Jehovah, Moses, Elias, and Elijah appeared to Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery to restore the keys of this dispensation (see D&C 110). Can you picture yourself in the temple? If not, what do you need to do to get there? The unprecedented availability of temples, and the technology to engage in family history work, are a tremendous blessing and obligation; through temple ordinances for the dead, salvation is available to all God's children throughout all of human history, and this generation is called to be "saviors on mount Zion." Live to be worthy of these blessings and obligations. The temple recommend questions are an opportunity to self-evaluate our spiritual health and progress. Though a certain standard of worthiness is required, imperfections & sins don't disqualify us from temple attendance. And temple attendance can help us overcome them. Earthly distinctions of wealth and status are left behind when we enter the temple, all dressed in white, united by a common desire and engaged in a common work. It would be a great blessing if we could take that spirit of the temple with us as we return to our regular lives.

Dieter F. Uchtdorf
At the end of the Sunday Morning session, after an hour and a half of conference, all the Mormons perk up again as the Silver Fox takes the podium! President Uchtdorf shares his experience of the Desden bombing when he was four years old. A beautiful Lutheran church was destroyed in the bombing, and much later rebuilt, in part using scarred and blackened stones from the original structure. The church stands as a witness that what is damaged and destroyed can be rebuilt. There is no life so shattered that it cannot be rebuilt. The best way to help sinners repent is not to condemn, ridicule, or shame them. Jesus provides the perfect example: he associated, loved, and served those whom his society shunned as sinners and unclean. As the Good Shepherd, he continually seeks after and finds the lost sheep and endeavors to bring them back to the fold. "The sheep is worthy of divine rescue simply because it is loved by the Good Shepherd.... You are his child, and he loves you. He loves his children. Because he loves you, he will find you...and bring you home." But he will force no-one to heaven; we must be willing to be saved. We show our willingness by turning toward him, and receiving baptism. To start with, it's enough merely to desire to believe, to have a spark of hope that God can save you. That is enough for the transformation to begin! Obedience itself does not save us, but by obedience we show our desire to receive God's blessings. He shares a German proverb: "There is nothing good unless you do it." (I love it when he speaks German--I can even understand it sometimes!) "If our faith does not change the way we live, our religion is vain."

Sunday Afternoon Session


Robert D. Hales
"The Holy Ghost honors the principle of agency" and speaks to our minds and hearts about many matters of consequence, but to seek or expect revelation through the Holy Ghost for every decision, no matter how trivial, is to misunderstand the purpose and power of the Holy Spirit. It is not good to be commanded in all things. In addition, we cannot receive revelation for others outside our stewardship. We can err, being deceived by the temptations of the adversary, or misled by heeding our own desires in opposition to the whispering of the Spirit. But if we will humble ourselves, and strive to live worthy, and seek diligently to understand what is right, the Holy Ghost will reveal what is needful for us to know and to do. The windows of heaven are open to all who will look; the word of the Lord may be heard by all who will listen, and when we heed the revelation we receive, we will receive more. The spirit of prophecy is alive in the church, and it is through the Holy Ghost that we receive it.

Gerrit W. Gong
Remembering and forgetting are an everyday part of life; they are also part of eternity. Time, agency, memory help us to learn and grow. When we take the sacrament each week, we covenant to "always remember Him." We can do so first, by having confidence in God's promises. Second, through gratefully acknowledging His hand in our lives. Third, by trusting when the Lord assures us that when we repent, God remembers our sins no more. But he does remember us, and knows us better than we know ourselves. Fourth, by remembering that God will always welcome us home, no matter how far or long we have strayed. Fifth, remembering to do the work we are called to do--to love, teach, and serve one another. Sixth, by remembering him as he remembers us.

Patrick Kearon
There are an estimated 60 million refugees in the world right now--that means roughly 1 in every 122 people on earth! And half of these are children. The need is great. These people have had to abandon homes, possessions, jobs, and leave behind friends and family, in order to preserve their lives. The church is engaged in a great effort to help relieve this enormous need. He reminds us of Sister Burton's call from last weekend to ask ourselves "What if their story were my story?" He asserts: their story is our story. All of us have found refuge in the arms of the Savior. And he reminds us that Jesus himself was a refugee, as his family fled to Egypt when he was a young child. He describes the relief efforts that members of the church throughout Europe are engaged in. This need will remain with us long after the initial shock is over; we must not flag in our efforts to aid those who are in such desperate need. It doesn't matter what our political affiliations are--we ought to be no respecters of person, but serve where the need is great. We should also remember that it isn't wise to run faster than we have strength--we must do what we can, but still provide for the needs of our families. Donating is good, but we should also consider what we can do close to home, to help refugees within or near our own communities. Refugees resettling in host countries have myriad needs, small and great--mentoring with something as simple as going to a grocery store or to school, as well as help learning a new language (and you can learn their language to help with communication too), practicing job interviews, and so on. We hope that refugee status will be only a period, hopefully a short period, in their lives--this experience does not define them, and they have been and will be brilliant contributors to their communities and world. But how we respond does help to define us.

President Uchtdorf, who is conducting, has been weeping. Elder Kearon's message has special resonance for him, because he and his family were refugees during and after WWII.

Dallin H. Oaks
Agency is a favorite topic for Elder Oaks, which is not surprising since in his former professional life he was a judge. Opposition is necessary to the exercise of agency, because the purpose of agency is not merely to have choices, but to have an opportunity to choose God, or anything else. In the council in Heaven, Satan suggested his own plan as a substitute to God's plan. In Satan's plan, all would be saved, without exception or choice. But his reason for suggesting this plan was not love but pride: he wanted God's glory for himself. In God's plan, we have the opportunity to choose for ourselves whether to follow God, but he has provided a way for all who choose it to be saved. Experiencing opposition, in the form of temptation or hardship, is not a reflection on our worthiness. No amount of righteousness exempts us from the necessity of opposition in our lives. It is through opposition that we learn and grow. Opposition sometimes comes from within the church, from those who style themselves "the loyal opposition." While "loyal opposition" may be appropriate within a political body, the administration of the church functions by revelation to those who've been called; it's not that we're expected to blindly follow, because we are promised and expected to seek personal revelation. But we are expected to sustain church leaders and assist in the work of building Zion. Speaking for myself, when I am unsure of direction that church leaders have given, I persevere in the knowledge that I do have, and patiently wait for further light and knowledge on the issue that troubles me.

Kent F. Richards
The temple points us to Christ, and there is real power in its ordinances. I have served as a recorder in the Mesa temple, and can testify of the added blessings, power, and knowledge that come from regular temple service. All that we do in the temple is done in reverence and love, with care and diligence, and we carry that spirit with us back into the world. I hope that no one is intimidated by the prospect of going to the temple and doing temple work. It is simple and beautiful.

Paul V. Johnson
The Savior's resurrection brought total victory over death. When loved ones die, we have hope through the resurrection. Our spirits will be reunited with our perfected, immortal bodies; there is no salvation without resurrection. The Bible and the Book of Mormon testify of the reality of Christ's bodily resurrection, and Joseph Smith and other latter-day prophets and apostles have likewise borne witness that they have seen the resurrected Lord Jesus Christ in the flesh. Because we know the reality of the resurrection, we can have faith that Christ has power to cleanse us from our sins, to heal our spirits, and to work mighty miracles through his servants. The promise of the resurrection brings peace and hope to all those who have lost loved ones.

Jeffrey R. Holland
Yes, I know that we, the members of the church, are loved dearly by our leaders. I have served as a local leader and know that the capacity to love those you are called to serve is difficult to comprehend unless you have experienced it. Though they do not know us each individually, our leaders love us. And how much more does God, who knows us individually and perfectly, love us! The messages of general conference can, for some, feel overwhelming or discouraging. But that is not their purpose or intent--they ought to inspire and uplift, and yes, prompt us to do better. With the help of the Savior, we can improve, and the great thing about the gospel is, we get credit for trying, even if we don't always or completely succeed. If you fall, call out for mercy and help. God will answer. He will lift up, forgive, heal, and strengthen us. We will be blessed for our desire to do good, even as we strive to become good. Remember the first great companion: love God with all our heart, might, mind, and strength. But the first great truth is that God loves us with all His heart, might, mind, and strength--which is infinite and eternal! God will not desert us; it is not his character to do so. God wants to bless us! An abundant and eternal life for each of us is his goal.

AMEN!

And that's it for the next 6 months. I'm so excited to re-read, and re-listen to these conference messages. I feel blessed to have this opportunity to worship and learn with all my brothers and sisters in the church throughout the world.

Saturday, September 26, 2015

Live blogging General Conference, Fall 2015 Edition

Image: The LDS Conference Center on Temple Square, Salt Lake City, UT. Source: https://www.flickr.com/photos/onasill/17077928146
It's that time again! Every six months, members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints gather together, in person or via broadcast, for General Conference. Presiding officers of the Church select their speaking topics by inspiration, often in response to current needs and issues they have perceived through their ministries both within the church and in the broader world. General Conference begins with the Women's Session, held on Saturday evening one week ahead of the rest of General Conference, with the remaining five sessions spanning the first Saturday and Sunday of May and October. You can watch Conference live or on demand at conference.lds.org, the Mormon Channel website, YouTube, or on BYUtv. Shortly after each Conference, audio and text versions of individual talks become available online, and are published a month later in special conference issues of the Ensign and Liahona.

The General Women's Session aired Saturday, September 28 at 6:00pm Mountain Daylight Time (that's 5 pm here in AZ). The remaining sessions were on Saturday, October 3rd and Sunday, October 4th, at 10am and 12pm MDT each day, with the Priesthood Session at 6pm on Saturday. The Saturday afternoon session was one for the history books, as 3 new members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles were called (due to the recent deaths of Elders Boyd K. Packer, L. Tom Perry, and Richard G. Scott). The last time there were 3 vacancies in this quorum was in 1906, according to D. Todd Christofferson. Latter-day Saints believe that apostles are called by inspiration, and we sustain them as prophets, seers, and revelators.

For the past few years, rather than taking notes on paper, I've blogged my way through most or all of the sessions (I sometimes skip the Priesthood Session, because I'm not a priesthood holder and twelve-ish hours of church in the space of one week is a lot, even if I do watch four of those hours in my pajamas while eating waffles just because I can). My notes are not comprehensive, but rather reflect on whatever strikes me at the time. I try to update this post at the end of each speaker's remarks. Feel free to follow along, share, and comment!

Women's Session


Right this minute, a lot of my friends are watching the latest episode of Doctor Who. I'm anxious to watch it, too, but it will have to wait until tomorrow, because tonight I'm spending time with my sisters. Several million of them, ages eight and up, all over the world. It's pretty awesome, and I wouldn't miss it for anything.

A few minutes before the session began the First Presidency entered and took their seats, and in the close-up you could see that little trays of mints had been placed next to their seats, along with the standard glasses of water. What a delightfully Relief Society touch! 

That looks like a Laurel who offered the opening prayer! Laurels are the 16-18 year-old cohort of the Young Women's program. No wonder she sounded a little nervous.

Rosemary M. Wixom
The knowledge that our life is a gift from our Heavenly Father has enormous consequence, because it means that we have within us a divine nature, and an eternal destiny. "There are two important days in a woman's life: the day she is born, and the day she finds out why" (Elaine Cannon, former RS President). It's up to us to cultivate our eternal destiny. "It comes alive when you live your life to fulfill the measure of your creation." This brings to my mind a conversation I had with a friend earlier today, in which he asked whether I thought we are "supposed to come to different conclusions about how we should live as disciples of Christ." In short, my answer is yes. While there is one Christ, one baptism, and one church, each of us are given unique gifts, and the divine nature is given different expression in each of us. Therefore my discipleship will not look exactly like yours, and that is just as it ought to be. Otherwise I would not need my sisters and brothers in the gospel, and they would not need me, and there would be no reason to strive to build Zion.

Linda S. Reeves
Preceding Sister Reeves' remarks, we watched a video about the friendship between a single sister and a young primary girl she taught. I appreciated the affirmation that even when life does not turn out how we expect or plan, we are needed, and blessed by covenants we make in the church. While mothering, even by proxy, is not in the life plan for every woman, even in the church, the compassion and nurturing spirit which characterizes motherhood is also a characteristic of Christlike living for both women and men, regardless of our life circumstances. I too cherish the time I spend with my nieces and nephews, and with other children I know. I also treasure the opportunity to nurture the testimonies and scripture literacy of the adults I teach in Sunday School, many of whom are old enough to be my parents or grandparents, and many of whom also nurture me. I do believe that as I honor my baptismal and temple covenants and strive to obey my conscience, my power to nurture and to exercise compassion are increased.

I also appreciate Sister Reeves' acknowledgement that for those for whom promised blessings are delayed, the reassurance that all things will be fulfilled if not in this life then in the next, is just too far away for comfort. She quotes Amulek who taught that "this life is the time...to prepare to meet God." That's true, and applies regardless of life circumstances. I wish more people would focus on the ways that I and my single brothers and sisters are preparing, instead of focusing on the things we're still waiting for.

Carole F. McConkie
"Sisters, in this cause, we are all valued. We are all needed.... Righteousness emanates out to the world" when we understand who we are and what we are to do. Perhaps one reason why the most important work we can do is to prepare for marriage and parenthood is because family life with all its joys and trials is a crucible for developing "a broken heart and a contrite spirit," and therefore preparing for those roles by its nature also draws us closer to Christ.

Dieter F. Uchtdorf
I said to my roommate, "Listen, I'm not complaining, but it seems like President Uchtdorf speaks in the Women's Session a lot." To which she replied, "Maybe it's because he's so handsome." Yes it's true. Utchtdorf has been consistently voted "Apostle Most Likely to be Mistaken for a Movie Star" since 2004, in a retroactive poll that I just made up.

Life is full of enough difficulty that anyone can easily fall into discouragement and sadness. But it's also full of beauty and wonder and goodness, and regardless of our circumstances, we can increase our joy by consciously seeking to focus on what is good, and not only on what is hard. Yes, it's harder for some than others, and it takes time in any case. "The best things in life...take patience and work." No, I don't think we can talk ourselves out of depression. But we sure can talk ourselves into misery. Walking the path of discipleship, and seeking the companionship of the Holy Spirit, is a source of joy to me, even though it is often also difficult. The eternal joy that is the reward of those who love and serve God is not a far-off promise, for "now is part of eternity." Cultivating Christlike love doesn't always bring immediate happiness, nor does it shield us from sorrow, but I know from experience that approaching life without love and gratitude in my heart is a certain formula for misery.

That's all for now; I'll be back next weekend for the rest of General Conference.

Saturday Morning Session


I love the music of General Conference! 

Dieter F. Uchtdorf
An old proverb says, "Tell a man there are trillions of stars in the universe, and he'll believe you. Tell a man there's wet paint on the wall, and he will touch it just to make sure." The moral? It's good to seek knowledge for yourself, but often unwise to disregard the counsel and teaching of trustworthy sources. It's worthwhile to occasionally ask oneself, "is my experience of the church working for me?" Alma asked a similar question to the church in Zarahemla. But I think it matters with what intent we ask that question, and what we do about our answer. My own experience in church is often challenging, but occasionally sublime. President Uchtdorf is teaching a truth that I have learned for myself: often what makes church challenging is all the "sediment" of church programs and traditions that can make it difficult to access the plain and precious truths of the gospel, the fountain of living water that is Jesus Christ himself. But why belong to a church at all, then? Why not just believe in and follow Jesus on my own? Two reasons: first, Jesus commanded his disciples to gather together, to be a community. Second, the labor (and it is labor, however rewarding) of church membership is my school for discipleship. My private devotions are indispensable to the renewal of my spirit, but so is my communal worship. They are both difficult in different ways, and both strengthening in different ways. Yes, the gospel of Jesus Christ is working in my life, and I am grateful for it.

M Russell Ballard
Joseph SmithDavid O. McKay taught that when God makes a prophet, he doesn't unmake the man. Of course that is equally true of local church leaders. Being set apart to a stewardship in Zion entitles one to inspiration and imparts strength beyond ordinary abilities--I have experienced such myself. Yet it does not fundamentally change who one is or entirely compensate for one's personal weaknesses and foibles. I believe that God works through imperfect human beings, and I appreciate those who serve in the church despite their imperfections. It requires patience, humility, and a forgiving heart, both to lead and to be led in the church when we all continually fall short of the glory of God. It does help to seek to know, and to increase my understanding of, key gospel truths such as those Elder Ballard teaches in this talk. And we can strive to do better, even as we forgive ourselves and one another. That is how we "stay onboard the good ship Zion."

Richard J. Maynes
My friends and I often talk about the seemingly impossible task of achieving balance between work and the various commitments of our personal lives. If I want to have "balance" in my life, it must be centered on Jesus Christ.

Neill F. Marriott
Paul's declaration that "all things work together for good to those who love God" does not mean all things are good, but that God's grace can transform our lives through suffering as well as through blessings. Healthy desire and effort to improve must be coupled with trust in the grace of God, which is the power by which hearts are changed and lives are transformed.

Larry R. Lawrence
Wow, lots of converts speaking from the pulpit this morning. How lovely! Crucial question: "what lack I yet?" What's stopping me from progressing? "The Holy Ghost really does give customized counsel." No matter how far or near I am from where I want to go or who I want to become, I can take one step at a time toward it. When I examine my life, sometimes I feel overwhelmed by all I know I have to do. But it's true that "by small and simple things are great things brought to pass" (Alma 37:6). I find reassurance in Elder Lawrence's invitation and promise that the Holy Spirit will gently and generously help me to see the next step, and the next one after that. Direction is more important than speed. What a treasure is the gift of personal revelation!

Francisco J. Viñas
Yeah, I'm guilty of some of those "vanities" which can interfere with a full appreciation of and blessings from attending sacrament meeting. I can do better.

Quentin L. Cook
Elder Cook reminds us that no cause, however noble it may seem or be, ought to supersede the cause of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Yet I think that I can profitably ally myself as a disciple of Christ with many noble causes. It takes a spirit of discernment to know how to navigate such relationships of trust and mutual endeavor, where we often disagree about central issues, while remaining steadfast in my principles as a member of the church. It also takes faith and courage to know when and how to step back from other commitments so that I can refocus on my discipleship. I believe it is that discipleship which enables me to be most effective in doing good in the world.

Amen to the morning session!

Saturday Afternoon Session


This is going to be a historic session! I can't wait to meet three new apostles! With the growth of the global church, I'm really hoping one of them will be a POC from somewhere outside North America and Europe.

That primary choir! So sweet. Though evidently some of them are more excited than others. One girl looks like she might fall asleep at any moment. One boy's obviously wearing his dad's tie, which is much too big for him. Minimal wiggles. That conference center seats 21,200, and it sure looks like every seat is filled. It takes courage to sing before such a huge live audience, but what a thrill! I bet they'll never forget the experience.

This is it! Ronald A Rasband, Gary E Stevenson, and Dale G. Renlund have been called as members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. All are native Utahns, so my hope for an apostle from South America, Africa, or Asia will just have to wait. That's OK. Things don't always happen when we want them to. I'm looking forward to hearing their messages tomorrow. I have to admit I missed most of the other sustainings and releases because I was googling these brethren.

Robert D. Hales
Young adults face difficult and increasing challenges of employment, debt, and family relationships, but the gospel can provide strength and stability that will help young adults of the church to navigate these difficulties. "Straighten up and fly right" and "never deliberately fly into a thunderstorm." To me, clear skies seem pretty scarce these days. Many of my friends, despite vigilance and careful navigation, find themselves in the midst of small and large storms. But I still believe that Elder Hales' advice about avoiding debt, pursuing lifelong learning, creating and nurturing families, and seeking great mentors, will help see us through the storms of life.

I'm feeling stung by his urging singles not to delay marriage, or to not "date all the way through your twenties," though. Those I know (and as a "mid-single" myself, I know many) who remain unmarried into their thirties and beyond for the most part did not become so because we were pursuing fun, or education, or careers, or anything else at the expense of an earnest search for a marital companion. It is exhausting to hear such continual admonishments, and small comfort to be told that if we're still single through no fault of our own, we will eventually receive those blessings we've patiently sought. It is much more uplifting to me to focus on what I can do now and in the near future to develop as a disciple, whether I must walk that path throughout my life alone or not. So I appreciate the majority of this talk.

Jeffrey R. Holland
In its divine aspect, maternal love "will range between unbearable and transcendent, over and over and over again." But motherhood doesn't always reflect the ideal image we have of it. Nor does fatherhood! I am grateful for parental love, and I do believe that, when it is righteously expressed, it approaches divine love.

I am touched by the compassion expressed and recounted by Elder Holland in describing the love of a family and of church leaders as they held close to their gay son and brother, as he struggled with confusion, despair, and trauma. I'm also touched by Elder Holland's frank assertion that the young man's sexual attraction did not, and was not expected to change, even as he demonstrated his worthiness to hold church callings, a temple recommend, and eventually return to the mission field. This message is much needed by the church, and I hope that it will prove to be yet another step toward preventing for others at least some of the confusion, despair, and trauma that this young man and his family suffered. I don't pretend that the doctrine of the family as taught by the church won't necessarily be a stumbling block to homosexual latter-day saints and those who love them, but much of the anguish that these brothers and sisters suffer is caused not by doctrine, but by failures of compassion.

Bradley D. Foster
If I could speak to Elder Foster, I would remind him that there was never a day in the history of the Earth when there was not a battle for the minds and souls of the sons and daughters of Adam and Eve. That has not changed, and will not change until the work of salvation is complete on the Earth. And in a way that's good news, because we know at least in part what to expect. And we know from past experience that the righteous influence of families are a powerful support to children, youth, and adults as they face those challenges.

Hugo Montoya
Helping others lightens our own burdens. Sorry for the shortness of my notes! I just experienced my first conference doze of the season.

Vern P. Stanfill
In the darkness of mortality, as we stay close to the light of Jesus Christ, and as we add our own feeble lights to those of our fellow travelers, we can see the way more clearly. I love this analogy.

Brother Stanfill, folks on social media are no more or less likely to have private agendas than anybody else I meet, including some of the people I meet at church. Wisdom and experience teach me that I'm more likely to find good teachers and mentors in some places than in others, but I still have to heed the counsel of John, who urged us to "try the spirits whether they are of God." Because I know what the light of God feels like, I am able to compare the lights of others to that light, in determining whether it might emanate through another person from the same source. That familiarity is a gift that I sorely need, and that without care I know I may lose; it's also something that we can all cultivate.

James B. Martino
Our actions and intents affect our ability to receive further light and knowledge, and determine whether given experiences will build faith or not. And there will be times when we may struggle through afflictions and doubts seemingly in vain. "We will all face trials and have questions." Prayer and fasting have real power to help us in such straits. The difference between murmuring and a sincere expression of doubt comes down to intent, but that isn't always evident to others, and if we're not careful we may even deceive ourselves about our own intents. For that reason, it's important to search our own hearts, be careful how we judge others' expressions of faith (or their seeming lack of it), and be careful how and to whom we express doubts and ask questions--or answer them!

Dallin H. Oaks
What a gift it is to know that because of the atonement of Jesus Christ, He knows how to succor us in our infirmities, including the many we are subject to in mortality which are not caused by any unrighteousness on our own part, as well as those which are a consequence of sin. Yes, Christ walks the halls of our temples, our homes, our hospitals, our schools, our places of employment, and even our prisons. For those who seek Him, there is no place He cannot be found. Because Christ descended below all things, He is now positioned to lift us above all things. We cannot pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps, but we can reach upward, grasp His outstretched hand, and ascend with God's help.

As the children's choir sings the closing song, I see a lot more wiggles, and it's making me smile. These kids are champs, and they sound lovely.

Sunday Morning Session


Thomas S. Monson
"Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity." (1 Timothy 4:12) "Let us speak to each other with love and respect" and without crude or deliberately offensive language. Cultivate compassion, and the pure love of Christ. Humility, love, and virtue illuminates the soul and radiates from one's countenance. We Mormons are different, and should embrace those differences that set us apart in the eyes of the world because of our obedience to commandments and gospel covenants. This reminds me of the saying, "Weird is just a side effect of awesome." 

President Monson became visibly fatigued as his talk went on, leaning more heavily on the podium, until toward the end he was even struggling to continue speaking. He finished his message, and his counselors, President Eyring and President Uchtdorf, rose to help him back to his seat. This reminded me of Moses, who required the assistance of Aaron and Hur to uphold his hands so that Israel could prevail. I am thankful that President Monson was able to speak today.

Ronald A. Rasband
What a beautiful testimony of the power of God's love, and of our love for God and for our fellow human beings.

Gary E. Stevenson
I believe that gratitude and humility have a kind of paradoxical power. because when we truly feel grateful, and when we exercise humility, it is then that God is able to "make weak things strong" (Ether 12:27). I can sympathize with the feelings of inadequacy Elder Stevenson expressed as he assumes this mantle, because I too often feel inadequate in my church stewardships--and I too can testify of the power of the Holy Spirit to enable us to rise to our responsibilities.

Dale G. Renlund
We now have two heart surgeons serving in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles: President Nelson, as well as Elder Renlund. I appreciate the diversity of expertise represented in this quorum, because it contributes to the richness of perspective that these brethren draw upon in counseling with one another about the administration of the church, as well as to the examples they draw on as they teach us in General Conference.

Nice to see an extended camera focus on the members of the congregation joining in the hymn in sign language!

Russell M. Nelson
We're seeing the fulfillment of President Kimball's prophecy that the growth of the church going into the future would be facilitated in large part by the strength and leadership of women who are drawn to the gospel of Jesus Christ, and who emanate their difference from worldly expectations in powerful ways. President Nelson declared that we need "women who can speak with the power and authority of God," who have the ability to serve in executive leadership roles, powerfully teach the truths of the restored gospel, and receive personal revelation that enables us to testify to the church and the world. He then related a tender, painful experience in which he lost a patient, causing him to despair and desire to quit practicing surgery. When he had spent a night weeping, his wife asked, "Are you done crying? Then get up, get dressed, go back to work. You need to learn more. If you quit now, others will have to painfully learn what you already know." This counsel is powerful. It applies to me right now. We need women to speak up and speak out, to contribute as full partners! Yes!

This is basically my reaction to this whole talk:


Gregory A. Schwitzer
“True disciples of Christ are not looking to make excuses for the doctrine, when it doesn’t fit the world’s current concepts.” True disciples represent the Lord, even when it is not convenient. 

Claudio R. M. Costa
Keep the Sabbath day holy by telling the stories of Jesus in our homes and to our families. "The Sabbath and the sacrament become much more enjoyable as we study the stories of Christ." I have been pondering ways to improve my Sabbath observance. This counsel, more than any other counsel I've heard on the subject, resonates with me right now as something that will bless me personally. I believe that Sabbath observance should not be hedged about with many rules, as some would have it, but rather be a matter of personal reflection, preparation, and practice, coupled with regular, open-hearted communion with our local congregations. Elder Costa's counsel on Sabbath observance feels right to me. I will do it.

"There Is Sunshine In My Soul" is one of my least favorite hymns, but this arrangement and performance is beautiful. I love it. I love it a lot.

Henry B. Eyring
"The companionship of the Holy Ghost makes what is good more attractive, and makes temptation less compelling." It also gives us the power to discern truth from falsehood. I do believe that this is true, and have observed that when I am striving to be worthy of the companionship of the Spirit, my capacity to learn and to retain knowledge of all kinds is increased. But I wonder if there might be a danger of mistaking personal bias for the Spirit's witness in evaluating truth-claims. For this reason, it's not only important to seek inspiration by the Spirit, but also to remain open to correction, and to further light and knowledge. Though I am confident in many beliefs, I consider very few as settled beyond doubt. I appreciate President Eyring's reassurance to those who are listening to this message, and who struggle to feel the Holy Ghost, that they have felt its impressions, and that we can learn to recognize those impressions, and act on them, and that doing so will help us to remain worthy of future personal revelation. I also appreciate his testimony that we need spiritual knowledge as well as empirical knowledge, and that pursuing one does not preclude pursuit of the other. The habit of praying in faith and studying the scriptures enhances our ability to receive answers from the Holy Spirit over time.

As the Sunday Morning Session of General Conference concludes with a wonderful, powerful rendition by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir of "The Spirit of God Like a Fire Is Burning", I just have to say--if you watch no other session of this conference, watch this one! The messages, the music--my heart is full!

Sunday Afternoon Session


This is the final session of conference, and usually the hardest one for me to remain awake for. I forgot to buy dark chocolate peanut M&Ms to eat (crunchy things help me stay awake). Plus it's a rare, cloudy day here in Arizona. So if I miss a talk, you'll know why. 

The choir sings, "Our God is a God of love / Love is the greatest gift to us / Love is our greatest gift to Him." Amen to that song!

D. Todd Christofferson
Yes, it's worth pausing to consider why the Lord instituted a church at all, rather than leaving worship as a purely personal thing. It's interesting to hear Elder Christofferson historicize the patriarchal order of the church. The early organization arose from the familial structure of early society and adapted as societies became more complex than the smaller family units. Yet the local, temporal, malleable nature of church organization does not mean that everything in the church is optional. Faith must be followed by saving ordinances (though the performance of saving ordinances has changed in different dispensations), and the commandment to gather together as families and communities to build the kingdom of God remains constant. Activity in the church is necessary to a disciple life. Bear in mind two things: first, we do not strive for conversion to the church, but to Jesus Christ, which the church facilitates. Second, the family remains the fundamental unit of the church. The other appendages of the church enhance our capability to do much good in the world, to care for the poor and the needy, and take the gospel to all the world, beyond what we could do alone, or even within our families. The church is the kingdom of God on the Earth.

Devin G. Durrant
Elder Durrant urges members to develop a habit of saving--the amount matters less than the regular practice. "Small efforts sustained over time can produce significant results." He also urges us to "ponderize" the scriptures. That is, to ponder the scriptures daily, and memorize passages that have special meaning for you. The benefit of this practice is to provide a way to elevate your thoughts. I have found that I need a variety of scripture study practices throughout my life, with different practices becoming more necessary to me at different times. For me right now, picking verses out to focus on is less effectual than a deep contextual study, but there are certainly times in my life where pondering and memorizing selected verses has provided just such elevation as Elder Durrant describes--and I would imagine it would be more accessible to children and youth, as well. But I hope that members do not rely on a few familiar scripture study tools, and instead seek to master a broad range of study tools and practices.

Von G. Keetch
The talk began with a story of a visit to a beach where surfers were frustrated by a barrier preventing them from enjoying the big waves, but on closer examination with a pair of binoculars, they discovered that the barrier lay between the surfers and a school of sharks. "Don't be too critical of the barrier...it's the only thing that's keeping you from being devoured." This is a common theme in General Conferences, and in Christian sermons more broadly. Although there may be disagreements about which constraints are most necessary, it is in fact a universal principle that freedom to act cannot exist or be sustained without constraints.

Carole M. Stephens
It looked like Sister Stephens will also be talking about constraints, this time with a story about a young child resisting a seat belt. But then the talk took a different turn than I expected, as Sister Stephens talked about the different strategies she used to try to persuade her granddaughter to wear a seatbelt. Negotiation and threats did not work, but explaining the principle of safety with a sincere expression of love did! If we do not teach principles with love, those we care about will naturally resist the restraints they perceive as being imposed on them for reasons they do not understand. Cultivating trust and love is necessary to cultivating obedience. It is trust and love which motivates the kind of obedience that has the power to transform lives.

This talk greatly enhances my understanding of the principle Elder Keetch was trying to teach. The conference schedule of speakers is set far in advance, and topics are not assigned; I believe that both Elder Keetch and Sister Stephens were inspired to speak on this topic, and that we were meant to hear these messages together.

Allen D. Haynie
What a beautiful testimony of the nature and power of the atonement! "Repentance is real, and it works!" Through the cleansing and healing blood of Jesus Christ, we can be clean, we can be whole.

Kim B. Clark
It's my old university president! BYU-Idaho, represent! I hope Elder Bednar talks in this session too. "Whatever level of spirituality we now have, it will not be sufficient for the days to come.... We do not have to be perfect, but we need to be good at getting better." Practicing individual devotions, participating in church and temple service, and living according to the principles we have been taught will help us grow spiritually. What would it mean to be able to see the world around us the way the Savior sees it? How would my life change if I could? I think I see glimpses sometimes, and it is glorious.

Koichi Aoyagi
I can easily relate to the discouragement Elder Aoyagi felt as a result of his protracted struggle with infirmity, and can add my testimony of the power of such afflictions to purify the soul and cultivate compassion. Times of trial can help us turn to and trust in God rather than in our own strength.

David A. Bednar
Ask and ye shall receive! I love my BYU-I peeps. Elder Hales taught Elder Bednar that "When you cannot do what you have always done, then you only do what matters most." And Elder Bednar added, "Physical restrictions can expand vision. Limited stamina can clarify priorities." I needed this message right now. And as with Elder Keetch and Sister Stephens, it seems like a perfect pairing with the talk that came before it, expanding on the principles that Elder Aoyagi taught. Yes, imperfections and weaknesses in our leaders (and ourselves) can be encouraging and faith promoting, when we understand that it is God's grace, and our privilege, that he works through weak and imperfect people--and that therefore, if we will turn to him, he will work through us and enable us to do the work that matters most, no matter how weak and imperfect we are. Our departed apostles' lives of disciple service enabled them  to bear witness of truth with authenticity and power.

Amen, and amen to this conference!

Writing Leftovers

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